
As consumers, we often rely on reviews from other shoppers before making a purchase. After all, you want to make sure what you’re buying is worth it. Like any other product, this also holds true for books. You don’t just want any book, you want the best book, and you don’t want to waste your money either. So what do you do? You read the reviews. Then later, you might even leave a review yourself. As a teenager, I occasionally left reviews for books I’d been reading. Sometimes they were glowing reviews, and other times they were less than stellar. Regardless of the rating, I viewed it as a service to people who hadn’t read those books yet. But then something happened to little teenage me that changed my perspective on book reviews…
One day I left a 4-star review for a book I’d checked out of the library. Not a bad review by any means, but I had written that I was disappointed in the ending and that was my reason for demoting a star. This is a helpful review, I thought. Then someone ‘liked’ the review and my heart sunk when I saw who it was…the author had ‘liked’ it. I was mortified. Although I hadn’t been rude and in fact had given a high rating, this was the first time I realized authors actually read their reviews. It should have been obvious, but it just never occurred to me until that moment. I always thought of reviews as a way of informing other readers about books, not as a way of telling authors what I thought of their work.
I felt a little guilty for saying I was disappointed in the book’s ending, even though it was true. It perhaps would’ve been better if I had detailed how I thought the ending could’ve been improved, and also better highlighted the things I did like. I’m sure the author was still thrilled to receive a 4-star review—hence why they clicked the ‘like’ button—but maybe I didn’t have to be so blunt. I later had flashbacks to some of the 2-star reviews I’d left for other books and just felt…icky. Could I have been nicer? Was what I said actually helpful, or just destructive? Did I hurt the authors’ feelings? I realized that when you leave a review, what you’re actually doing is giving feedback to an author that’s put a lot of time, energy, and heart into their work. And this isn’t to say you shouldn’t be honest in reviews—constructive criticism is welcomed by most authors—it just means you should be mindful of the person behind the book before writing your review.
Am I against leaving book reviews? Absolutely not. Authors rely on reviews to get more sales, especially the 4 and 5-star reviews they receive. So if you love a book, definitely be sure to leave a review to help them out! And then there’s those books you thought were OK, but had just hoped for something more or different. By all means, share these opinions in reviews also, but do so with kindness as though you were talking to the authors face-to-face. In order to learn and grow as writers, authors sometimes need to hear a few negatives so that they know what to work on in the future. But what about those books you absolutely hated? Really, it’s up to you, but as for me, I can’t bring myself to leave a review on those books. If I truly hate something, I think it’s better to not leave a review at all. And besides, just because I hate a book, doesn’t mean the next reader will hate it, too. We all have different tastes and expectations when we pick up a new read.
Writing a book is difficult and takes countless hours to complete, so it doesn’t feel right for me to drag the work of a fellow author through the mud. Books aren’t like other products—they’re art. And as a way to respect fellow artists, I will never leave a 1-star review on a book.
